In On It: What adoptive parents would like you to know about adoption
by Elisabeth O’Toole

This is a great book, a must read for families being formed through adoption. The book is written for friends and family members, and by all means, buy them a copy for the next holiday. But an even better idea may be to read it yourself and use the contents to begin important conversations among your friends and family.

Some topics covered in the book include explaining the invasive process adoptive families go through, the importance of privacy of your child’s story and tips for how family and friends can learn to speak of adoption as informed advocates. After all, they are in on it too!